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Sunday, May 22, 2005

-nick-

hey guys. long time no post!!... haha why's everyone reading my blog? nah A levels where got english? dun have lah... and my english isn't that good anyhow. bah. next time if cannot find job become english teacher lol.

oh yeah... chris told me about how jo asked him something about what guys look for in a girl... so i wanna try and sort this thing out. chris can be an insensitive idiot sometimes (boy admit it man), haha. so yeah. ladies, chill. and listen to what i have to say.

according to chris, he said something like guys will of course like pretty girls over character or something. well, you cannot judge all males/men/guys just because of a select group, you know. we live in quite a shallow world nowadays. do you girls like good-looking guys? of course. the good-looking have an edge in today's society. frankly, i think chris has guts to be so honest. or blunt. at least he is frank instead of lying isn't it? =)

now, my thoughts. guys will of course outwardly "like" good-looking girls and all, if not for personal choice, it is so that other guys will not "look down" on them for settling for less or some stupid shit. yeah, it's a guy thing somewhat. ego lah. what to do. =) anyway. but looks are DEFINITELY NOT the MOST important. when we are old, we will end up looking like dried raisins. so yeah. no point in liking/marrying/dating a girl who's really "pretty" but a horrible person inside. i myself go for character, personally. a girl with character really shines and is so attractive. heh heh heh. ah well.

the sterotype that is wrong is that guys only like pretty girls. this is very untrue. because we are young now, the main reason that attracts us to the opposite gender is of course looks. i mean, that's like the only thing we have now? haha.

i think why this is such a touchy topic is because us youngsters nowadays feel that we are all "not-good-looking" or whatever. please lah. you can't keep comparing to the people in the media or who look better than you. there are millions of em. i think at the basic level we must love what we are as God has made us.

so yeah, joanna and gelly, as sisters in Christ and as a Christian brother to you, I plead for both of you not to give up all hope on males in the world. and to go easy on chris. God has a plan for your future, and He loves each of you I'm very sure. take care y'all. out.

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